Kristyn Hodgdon

Nassau County, NY

Co-Founder and Chief Creative Officer at Rescripted | IVF Mom of Twins | Podcast Host of Dear (In)Fertility | Writer | Reader | Women's Health Advocate

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Articles

When it comes to fertility, the conversation has long focused on women’s health, and for good reason. Decades of research and impactful public health...

November 17, 2024

We’ve all been there: You go to bed with clear skin and wake up with painful, pus-filled spots around your chin and mouth. What...

November 16, 2024

Did you know that Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) is one of the most common hormone-related issues affecting women around the world? In the United...

November 16, 2024

Sexual wellness goes beyond physical health — it's about feeling empowered and confident in your body. Sexual wellness is a huge part of our...

November 14, 2024

If you’ve been paying attention to beauty trends lately, you’ve probably heard of gua sha. This ancient Chinese healing practice has made a big...

November 14, 2024

Imagine this: you step into a dimly lit room where soft, calming music plays, and the air smells like a dreamy blend of lavender...

November 13, 2024

We’ve all been there: that sudden, burning feeling “down there” that’s hard to ignore and leaves you squirming with discomfort. It’s unpleasant, and embarrassing,...

November 7, 2024

Headaches are almost universal — everyone has had one at some point. But if you’ve ever had a migraine or a cluster headache, you...

November 6, 2024

Living with endometriosis can be tough — it’s a chronic condition that comes with physical pain, emotional strain, and constant unpredictability. But while it...

November 2, 2024

Let’s talk about something that’s often whispered about but rarely discussed in the open: how vaginas look. Specifically, the so-called “outie vagina.” If you’ve...

November 2, 2024

When it comes to vaginal health, many of us may not realize how much our choice in underwear can affect our comfort, hygiene, and...

October 30, 2024

Migraines can be more than just a bad headache. They can derail an entire day, leaving you grappling with intense pain, nausea, and a...

October 22, 2024

As wellness trends continue to evolve, one buzzworthy combo gaining traction is protein powder mixed into your morning coffee. If you're scrolling through social...

October 22, 2024

When it comes to sexual desire, many of us have been led to believe that it should always be spontaneous, urgent, and all-consuming. However,...

October 21, 2024

Most women experience some array of unpleasant symptoms while menstruating. Many of us feel tired or constipated. Some report a loss of appetite or...

October 17, 2024

If you’re taking Adderall for ADHD or narcolepsy, you might have noticed some unexpected changes in your sex drive. Maybe you've found yourself suddenly...

October 15, 2024

Have you ever felt like your body’s thermostat is completely out of sync? Maybe you’re constantly cold, or perhaps you’re always feeling a bit...

October 13, 2024

Navigating the journey of menopause, or even just approaching it, can feel like uncharted territory — one minute you’re comfortable, and the next you’re...

October 12, 2024

Egg freezing is not just a physically and financially demanding process. It is also an extremely emotional experience, where taking care of your mental...

October 9, 2024

Pregnancy is a time when your body goes through some pretty amazing (and sometimes challenging) changes, and it brings a lot of questions about...

October 9, 2024

Let’s be real: when it comes to sexual health and pleasure, condoms play a crucial role. They’re not just about protection from pregnancy and...

October 8, 2024

Let’s talk about something that’s become a game-changer for many women: menstrual cups. If you’re new to the world of eco-friendly period care products...

October 8, 2024

Let’s face it: menstrual cramps can be a real pain in the... well, you know where. When that time of the month rolls around,...

October 8, 2024

As you research how to navigate IVF as an LGBTQIA+ couple, you’ll come across some key differences. The IVF journey itself still has its...

September 30, 2024

If you went on hormonal birth control as a teenager and later stopped taking it (in your 20s or 30s), only to discover irregular...

September 26, 2024

Menstrual cramps: 80% of women experience them at some point in their lifetime. At their best, they bring slight discomfort; at their worst, significant...

September 26, 2024

Dealing with PCOS can sometimes feel overwhelming, whether it's fertility worries, stubborn skin issues, weight challenges, or unpredictable mood swings. But here's the thing:...

September 23, 2024

From menstrual cramps to heavy bleeding, periods usually aren't an enjoyable experience for anyone. Not only can they be painful, but also exhausting, and...

September 16, 2024

For centuries, menstrual pain has been a topic shrouded in silence and misunderstanding. Many women have struggled to articulate the intensity of their monthly...

September 11, 2024

Period sex: It's already taboo enough. But with the growing popularity of sustainable period products like menstrual cups, you may have found yourself wondering...

September 6, 2024

Have you ever wondered why you feel on top of the world one week and ready to hibernate the next? As women, many of us...

September 5, 2024

Are you even a Millennial or Gen Z woman if your entire "for you" page isn't filled with seemingly endless ways to improve your...

August 27, 2024

Egg freezing, also known as oocyte cryopreservation, has become an increasingly popular option for people with ovaries looking to preserve their fertility. Whether you're...

August 22, 2024

Pregnancy can be a time of immense joy, but it can also be accompanied by intense worry and anxiety, especially for those who have...

August 22, 2024

Let's talk about something that many of us experience but few of us discuss openly: constipation during our periods. If you've ever found yourself...

August 20, 2024

Whether listening during a "hot girl walk" or as a welcome distraction from doing chores around the house, podcasts have become a daily companion...

August 5, 2024

If you've lived a lifetime of heavy periods, endometrial ablation is a minimally invasive gynecological procedure that may help to alleviate at least some...

July 31, 2024

Many women experience discomfort during their menstrual cycles, but when that discomfort turns into pain 'down there,' it can be particularly distressing. If you've...

July 30, 2024

Estrogen, often referred to as the "female hormone," plays a crucial role in women's health throughout our lives. From puberty to menopause and beyond, this powerful...

July 29, 2024

When it comes to women's health, there's always something new to learn. Today, we're diving into a pregnancy complication that might sound unfamiliar to...

July 28, 2024

When it comes to pregnancy tests, timing is everything. Whether you're hoping for a positive result or anxiously awaiting confirmation that you're not pregnant,...

July 21, 2024

Let's talk about a topic that's been the subject of countless debates, whispered conversations, and internal struggles: sex on the first date. It's a...

July 17, 2024

Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) affects millions of women worldwide, and finding effective treatments can sometimes feel like an uphill battle. Enter Ozempic, a medication...

July 16, 2024

When we think of diapers, our minds usually jump to babies and toddlers. But what if we told you that diapers are making a...

July 15, 2024

Endometriosis is a chronic condition that affects 200 million people worldwide and at least 7-15% of women. Characterized by the growth of endometrial-like tissue...

July 1, 2024

Whether you’re newly pregnant or counting down the remaining weeks until you meet your baby, you probably already know that you would do anything...

June 25, 2024

Anyone who has been through fertility treatments knows that it’s a lot of hurry-up-and-wait. Hurry up: Make the appointment, contact your provider, pay...

May 27, 2024

You’ve decided you want to grow your family, and that using a sperm donor is on the path to getting there. Like with...

May 20, 2024

  For women experiencing the effects of Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) — such as metabolic and hormonal imbalances — all eyes are on two...

May 15, 2024

  The more you understand during your family-planning journey, the easier it is to decide between two seemingly similar processes. Enter: egg freezing and...

April 17, 2024

In the past five years, I have been to more doctor’s appointments than I can count. From multiple rounds of IVF to being...

March 29, 2024

  This post is sponsored by BetterHelp, the world’s largest professional therapy platform done online. The state of your mental and physical health impacts...

March 21, 2024

The loss of a baby during pregnancy is traumatic. It doesn’t matter when or how it happens. In my experience, an early loss...

March 12, 2024

The world of assisted reproductive technology has seen remarkable advancements over the past few decades. From the inception of in vitro fertilization (IVF)...

January 14, 2024

The menstrual cycle is made up of four phases and 28-35 days that are each unique and bring with them their own ups and...

November 21, 2023

If you're dealing with unpleasant symptoms like fatigue, weight changes, irregular menstrual cycles, and more, a thyroid condition could be to blame. Hashimoto’s...

November 9, 2023

  A fertility journey can involve many steps between you and your future baby. Some are in your control, some aren’t, but all usually...

October 31, 2023

If you’ve been trying to get pregnant for a while, or if you’re a single parent or same-sex couple who wishes to conceive,...

October 12, 2023

A fertility journey can sometimes feel like being stuck in the middle of a loud rush hour traffic jam. The noise is overwhelming,...

September 28, 2023

If you scour the internet these days, you’ll come across many different “natural remedies” for hormone health and fertility. Some are newer to...

August 21, 2023

If you’ve logged onto TikTok or Instagram recently, you may have noticed the seemingly endless scroll of videos claiming to help you improve...

August 6, 2023

When it comes to fertility, we know that optimal nutrition plays a crucial role in supporting reproductive health for both women and men....

June 26, 2023

Hearing your baby’s heartbeat for the first time is an exciting milestone — and not just because it’s proof of a future life, but...

June 23, 2023

What’s for breakfast? Or lunch? Or dinner? Those are probably just some of the questions you sit with when deciding what to eat...

June 6, 2023

One night at dinner, a conversation came up with my 13-year-old son that reminded me of a moment I had when I was...

May 31, 2023

This article was sponsored by Fairhaven Health.  I was speaking with my new therapist recently, and in recounting the last several years of...

May 25, 2023

If you’re anything like us, you might find yourself learning something new on TikTok every day. Whether it’s a life hack that, as...

May 5, 2023

  Navigating a pregnancy loss can be difficult, no matter how early in the pregnancy it has occurred. Chemical pregnancies are miscarriages that...

May 3, 2023

For many people, diving into the world of infertility or fertility preservation comes with a lot of realizations about their own bodies and...

April 26, 2023

Many of us are familiar with abdominal ultrasounds: the cold gel, the wand being rubbed around on our torso, and the blurry images projected...

April 24, 2023

There’s no denying that women have more frequent and complex health needs than men. From PCOS and endometriosis to gynecological cancers and UTIs,...

April 11, 2023

In one study of reproductive-age women in the U.S., 40% were unfamiliar with the ovulatory cycle. Yes, you read that right: 40%. When...

April 5, 2023

  If you're considering surrogacy as a way to grow your family, then you know you have a lot of big decisions ahead....

March 18, 2023

  If you’re considering undergoing IVF or egg freezing, you’re likely nervous about so many aspects of the process. The financial toll, the...

March 15, 2023

  Ten years ago, miscarriages were largely suffered in silence. People carried on in the wake of heartbreaking losses, often not sharing their...

March 1, 2023

  Good sleep is essential for our physical, emotional, and mental well-being. While adults require about 7 to 9 hours of sleep every...

February 19, 2023

If you’ve been struggling to get pregnant, you may be piling worries on top of questions on top of more worries. Questions like,...

February 16, 2023

  Sometimes it can feel like information overload when it comes to everything you need to know while trying to conceive — and...

February 14, 2023

  Core Memory: The school nurse held a meeting with all of the 6th, 7th, and 8th-grade girls and asked, “Who has gotten...

February 13, 2023

  It's so satisfying to have one of those questions about fertility that includes very little guesswork. Finally, we actually have definite answers!...

February 10, 2023

If you’ve been trying to get pregnant for any amount of time, chances are good that you know the importance of taking a...

January 18, 2023

Fertility treatments are expensive and stressful, and for many of us, we only have a window of a few cycles to get it right....

January 17, 2023

  Sponsored by Organon.  Photo not of a real patient. Angeline N. Beltsos, MD, is the CEO, Clinical at Kindbody and is board certified in...

January 17, 2023

It’s no secret that kids are expensive. From providing for their basic needs to the exorbitant cost of childcare, they tend to soak...

January 11, 2023

  Here’s the thing about infertility: It isn’t just about the painful, physically draining tests and treatments. It isn’t even just about the...

January 5, 2023

  We’ve all been there, whether we’d like to admit it or not: finding yourself frantically Googling “how soon can I get a...

December 23, 2022

  You may have heard the saying that a “cold uterus” can cause infertility. This dates all the way back to Traditional Chinese...

December 19, 2022

  In the aftermath of the Dobbs decision to overturn Roe v. Wade, the worry surrounding state anti-abortion laws — and their potential...

December 15, 2022

  Whether you’re actively trying to conceive or just want to learn more about your reproductive health, there’s no denying that knowledge is...

December 12, 2022

  It’s no secret that IVF is time-consuming, physically and emotionally draining, and expensive. The average cost for one IVF cycle ranges from...

December 5, 2022

  As much joy as the holiday season never fails to bring, it is often simultaneously stressful. It takes a lot out of...

November 22, 2022

  The world of fertility meds can be a confusing and overwhelming place. With so many different treatment protocols and pharmaceutical options available,...

November 16, 2022

If there’s one thing you get familiarized with very quickly during fertility treatments, it’s hormones. How much you have, what you’re lacking, what...

November 14, 2022

  Not everyone decides to pursue parenthood in their 20s or 30s. Some may be focused on their careers or haven’t yet found...

November 9, 2022

  Navigating infertility is a layered experience that stretches you and a partner pretty thin. On the same day that you could be...

November 6, 2022

Update: Ferring resumed shipments of Menopur® (menotropins for injection) to wholesalers and pharmacies in the United States beginning on November 22, 2022 in...

November 3, 2022

  Reproductive diseases like polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS), interstitial cystitis, and endometriosis can make family planning more challenging. Another lesser-known condition many women...

October 27, 2022

  After spending a good chunk of my adult life trying to get pregnant and failing, I was incredulous when I got pregnant...

October 22, 2022

  Up until last year, I considered myself one of the lucky ones. Despite going through several failed IUIs and a round of...

October 19, 2022

  If you’ve been trying to conceive for a while without success, you may have started looking at your daily routine with a...

October 18, 2022

  If you’ve considered pursuing surrogacy — either as an intended parent or as a gestational carrier — you may have no idea...

October 12, 2022

  Entering the world of TTC, or trying to conceive, can lead to a whole new spin on sex. If you’ve been trying...

October 6, 2022

  If you have been diagnosed with PCOS, it’s likely you have also heard some diet advice (perhaps unsolicited). PCOS can not only...

September 28, 2022

  The IVF process can be a time filled with difficult decisions, and trying to work with your doctor to figure out the...

September 27, 2022

Unexplained infertility can be incredibly frustrating because it suggests an underlying diagnosis has not been identified for your unsuccessful attempts at getting pregnant...

September 15, 2022

  Sponsored by Organon. Photo not of a real patient.Kristyn Hodgdon is an IVF mom, proud fertility advocate, Co-founder and Chief Creative Officer...

September 7, 2022

  I’ve always been a relatively confident, self-possessed person. I was the first to raise my hand in school. First to ask the...

September 1, 2022

  “Loss is a unique experience.”  We hear this said often when comforting those who have lost a loved one they knew and...

August 31, 2022

  When thinking about your fertility and the many, many parts that play a role in it, sometimes we overlook certain aspects of our...

August 15, 2022

A job I do not covet from my freakishly fertile friends is having to break the news to me or other TTC warriors that...

August 14, 2022

  Most people grow up wanting to eventually become parents. While many do so through traditional partnerships, more and more are separating their...

August 11, 2022

  Two hearts become one and then two people become three. The fairy tale makes it all sound so effortless. Real life often...

August 2, 2022

  If you’re dealing with infertility, chances are good that you’ve paid a visit (or two or three) to Dr. Google to see...

July 27, 2022

  Women are born with all of the eggs they will ever have, which makes maintaining egg quality and healthy ovulation incredibly important...

July 18, 2022

Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) has been used in the United States since 1981 to help individuals and couples grow their families. During the...

July 12, 2022

Going through in vitro fertilization (IVF)  – or any infertility process – can feel like an endless cycle of waiting. You try unassisted –...

July 11, 2022

I’m currently in the two-week wait following my fourth frozen embryo transfer, and honestly, it feels like the stakes couldn’t be any higher for...

June 27, 2022

  For many, the right to an abortion is believed to be a black and white issue: you either support it, or you...

June 24, 2022

  Nationally celebrated holidays can feel isolating when your personal story doesn’t fit into the narrative of those days. For instance, Father’s Day...

June 14, 2022

  Sponsored by Organon Kristyn Hodgdon is an IVF mom, current fertility patient, Co-founder and Chief Community Officer of Rescripted. This article is the opinion of...

June 13, 2022

When you have been trying to conceive for a while without any luck, it can be difficult to know what your next steps should...

June 1, 2022

  I am a clinical embryologist, a position that has held the highest place of honor among the many accomplishments I have achieved...

May 31, 2022

  As a Reproductive Urologist, I specialize in treating male patients who want to get their partner pregnant or preserve their fertility. Even...

May 16, 2022

  In May of 2015, I married the love of my life. It was a whirlwind romance that took my breath away. I...

May 11, 2022

  Maybe you’ve decided that your family is complete or have opted to stop pursuing treatments. Perhaps you’ve chosen not to transfer certain...

May 9, 2022

Fertility seems like it should focus solely on the reproductive system, but it can be impacted by our other bodily systems and functions....

May 2, 2022

  Sponsored by Organon Dr. Alice Domar is a health psychologist with over 34 years of experience as a fertility therapist and has...

April 25, 2022

  You get another negative pregnancy test, grab your phone, and head straight to Google. You start searching for fast ways to get...

April 18, 2022

  There are many different paths that a fertility journey can take, and sometimes one of the biggest hurdles is figuring out the...

April 11, 2022

  When you’re trying to get pregnant, everything else in your life gets put on hold. This lack of control and structure is...

April 11, 2022

  You've been trying to conceive for a long time. Perhaps it's only been a year, but that year has felt like an...

April 7, 2022

There’s no sugarcoating it: a failed IVF cycle is devastating. Whether your egg retrieval ended with no viable embryos or the embryo you...

April 3, 2022

  Picture this: you have been trying to conceive for a while without success. You finally make an appointment with a fertility clinic...

March 28, 2022

  If you’re considering using frozen donor eggs to help grow your family, you might also be wondering what sort of biological impact,...

March 22, 2022

When you have been trying to conceive for a while, the two-week wait can be a highly anticipated time filled with feelings of...

March 20, 2022

  Going through fertility treatments can be filled with many seemingly impossible decisions. Should I alter my diet to improve my chances of...

March 18, 2022

  When you’re new to IVF, it can be difficult to wrap your mind around all of the different medications involved and the...

March 13, 2022

  When I was going through fertility treatments for the first time, I was 27 years young. I was newly married, recently diagnosed...

March 10, 2022

  If you’re trying to conceive, knowing when you ovulate is incredibly important. After all, contrary to what Sex Ed taught us in...

March 6, 2022

Sex is one of the most intimate experiences a couple can share. Likewise, the decision to have a child. In both, two individuals...

February 28, 2022

  I took sex-ed in Northwest Arkansas in what was, at the time, a small town. I consider myself fortunate that I come from...

February 27, 2022

  Lie with your feet up in the air after sex.  Have an orgasm.  Eat pineapple core. Pick up McDonald’s fries after an...

February 14, 2022

  My husband Nic and I fell in love quickly. Our relationship has always been full of spontaneity and big plans. We travel,...

February 3, 2022

  The only thing most people know about IVF is that it involves needles. Lots of needles. And they’re not wrong; injections, unfortunately, play...

January 31, 2022

  Since the beginning of time, women and couples struggling to conceive have been subject to a litany of ”well-meaning” but hurtful comments...

January 18, 2022

  When I started my IVF cycle, I had heard of the “IVF funnel,” or how the number of eggs retrieved can whittle...

January 13, 2022

  Let me tell you a little story about my first round of IVF. Spoiler alert: it was a big fat failure. When...

January 10, 2022

Staring down the long road of infertility is massively intimidating for many reasons. First of all, there’s the whole you-have-no-control-over-your-life-and-everything-you-thought-you’d-have-and-would-come-easily-is-nowhere-to-be-found thing. Second of...

January 6, 2022

  As a fertility clinic veteran, and now, finally, mother of two, I know what it's like to desperately want to get pregnant....

January 4, 2022

  The holidays can be a bittersweet time of year, especially for those of us whose journey to parenthood hasn’t been a smooth...

December 21, 2021

  When I think about the different “fertility types,” my mind immediately jumps to the various personalities in our community and the ways...

December 15, 2021

  In 2008, I discovered To Write Love on Her Arms after a close friend died by suicide. When I learned about their...

December 8, 2021

  Our story begins like so many. We were married on a beautiful October day. We waited a year before deciding to start...

December 2, 2021

  You're sitting in the parking lot of a fertility specialist's office, and your chest feels a little tight. You know that this...

November 30, 2021

  Pregnancy loss is a deeply painful, and unfortunately, all-too-common experience. I know this firsthand, after recently experiencing a missed miscarriage with my...

November 16, 2021

  We all know that what we put into our bodies affects our health in many ways. So if you are trying to...

November 8, 2021

  Something happens after you’ve been trying to conceive for a few years. You get tired of keeping the whole thing a secret....

November 3, 2021

  Recently, I had a realization. My Co-Founders and I were attending the American Society for Reproductive Medicine Conference (ASRM), and while we...

October 26, 2021

  A lot of people sense that they will have trouble conceiving, but I actually did not have that innate fear. Despite all...

October 25, 2021

  Nearly three-quarters of men who are trying to conceive or thinking about starting a family have no knowledge of their sperm quality,...

October 21, 2021

  When you are in the middle of infertility, there is so much that is out of your control. In my opinion, that’s...

October 14, 2021

  It was over two years ago when we found ourselves at a crossroads on our journey to parenthood. After exhausting our insurance-covered...

October 11, 2021

  There is no one-size-fits-all way to make a baby. Whether you’re in a heterosexual relationship, have a same-sex partner, or are a...

October 6, 2021

  I will never forget the day I was sitting in my therapist's office, telling her how poorly my relationship with my husband...

September 27, 2021

  Beta day. A day filled with so much hope, and yet so much anxiety. A day when you find out that either you’re...

September 14, 2021

Fertility medications can be one of the most confusing and frustrating parts of the IVF process. In fact, 22% of patients don’t comply...

September 13, 2021

  The only time I cried on my wedding day was during my best friend Hailey’s Maid of Honor speech. The way she...

September 9, 2021

  While there’s no hack or trick that is guaranteed to get you pregnant, if you’re still trying to conceive ‘the old-fashioned way,’...

September 2, 2021

  These are things I hear every day from my patients: “I have never felt this sad and anxious," “If I see another...

August 30, 2021

  If it feels like going through infertility is a full-time job, well that’s because it kind of is. Except instead of getting...

August 24, 2021

  Miscarriage and infertility don’t just bring on another set of medical bills and doctor's appointments. For those of us struggling to conceive,...

August 19, 2021

  Taking a pregnancy test can trigger some big feelings. Excitement. Anxiety. Fear. There’s a lot on the line when it comes to...

August 13, 2021

  It took my husband Brad and me two years to get on the same page when it came to our fertility treatment....

August 11, 2021

  Welcome to Rescripted! We’re changing the narrative around fertility and burning the word ‘normal’ when it comes to what a family is and...

August 9, 2021

  When I was going through fertility treatments the first time around, I was blissfully unaware that there were so many things that...

July 22, 2021

  Infertility is not just a women’s issue. In fact, infertility affects men and women equally. In couples experiencing infertility, approximately 35% is...

June 30, 2021

  In 1978, the idea of creating human life outside of the human body was out of this world. But that was also...

June 30, 2021

  When I met my husband Tristan in 2019, it was one of those I've-found-the-one moments. I know that sounds so cheesy, but...

June 22, 2021

  For heterosexual couples, being told by a doctor that you need to use donor eggs to have a baby can be incredibly...

June 15, 2021

  It was four years ago when I found myself right smack in the middle of my worst nightmare. I was preparing for...

June 9, 2021

  I met my husband the old-fashioned way—on the internet! We got married in 2012 and traveled the world: Europe, the British Virgin...

June 7, 2021

  Male factor infertility is not something I ever thought I would experience. I’m young, healthy, and no one else in my family...

June 1, 2021

  When my husband and I got married in 2015, our wedding party placed a bet that we would have kids within two...

May 24, 2021

  You never expect it will be you. Even if there is a family history—an aunt who had trouble conceiving—you never really think...

May 17, 2021

  Sustainable. Inexpensive. Totally effective. These are my goals when I create self-care content. Because, for the last decade, I have tried an...

May 10, 2021

  The decision to move to IVF likely isn’t one you made quickly or easily. There are a lot of factors to consider:...

May 3, 2021

  Mother’s Day is a tough holiday. After the launch of our Mother's Day collaboration with Greetabl, the members of our community reached out...

April 29, 2021

  “I’m grateful this is happening to me.” These are words I never thought I would say while reflecting on my fertility journey...

April 27, 2021

  Confession: For most of my adult life, I proclaimed that I did not want children. Ironically enough, one of the major things...

April 14, 2021

  Catherine (Cath) Lee and Lauren (Lar) Lee-Crane, here! We’re identical twin sisters that both suffer from endometriosis. We live in Atlanta, Georgia,...

April 8, 2021

  “The strongest people are not those who show strength in front of the world, but those who fight and win battles that...

March 31, 2021

  Some experiences in life stay with you and teach you lessons long after people think you should have moved past them. That’s...

March 25, 2021

  Here at The Yinova Center, we are dedicated to providing complementary care with meaningful results by using an integrative Eastern Medicine approach....

March 23, 2021

  Hello, warriors! I’m taking a moment to add another acronym to your TTC library and explain how I prepared for, coped with,...

March 22, 2021

  Before I delve into the inevitable, let me take you back in time—way, way back. I spent my childhood believing that magic...

March 18, 2021

  Prior to life with COVID, my husband and I loved to travel. Whether it was a weekend getaway road trip or an...

March 16, 2021

  There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to cope when it comes to trying--and struggling--to conceive. Many, when faced with an infertility...

March 9, 2021

  The deep desire to have a baby and being unable to conceive naturally once took over my entire life. The impact of...

March 8, 2021

  If you’ve met with a fertility specialist or you’re going through treatments, you may feel like you’ve had every test in the...

March 2, 2021

  It was 2015 when my best friend and I decided to Emigrate to Mallorca at age 19 in hopes of finding ourselves...

March 1, 2021

  “Trauma will age you more than time ever could.” I recently came across this quote, which couldn’t more accurately describe the emotions...

February 25, 2021

  Let’s face it: shopping for a prenatal vitamin can be overwhelming. There are a ton of different brands on the market, each...

February 22, 2021

  When you think of the typical situations that lead people to turn to lawyers, you may think of getting into a car...

February 18, 2021

  “Infertility, sadly, does not care about timing or schedules,” my therapist said to me as I cried through another session with her....

February 16, 2021

  I was honestly very naïve about the odds of getting and staying pregnant over 40 when I began my fertility journey. I...

February 15, 2021

  I have never been one of those women who felt like motherhood would define me. I always wanted to have an established...

February 11, 2021

  For IVF patients, having a doctor suggest donor eggs as a next step in the process can be an incredibly daunting and...

February 9, 2021

  I can still vividly remember the day my doctor called and said, “I think you need to consider IVF." At that point,...

February 8, 2021

  Words can be powerful. Coming from a book publishing background, I truly believe in the power of words to heal and inspire....

February 4, 2021

  Celebrities, they’re just like us. Right?! Well, actually, it’s complicated.  While on the surface it might seem like celebrities bringing attention to...

January 28, 2021

  I'm occupying space between two worlds. The first is a place that only consistently left me feeling disappointed, heartbroken, and devastated. The...

January 26, 2021

  Infertility requires the ultimate acceptance that there are some things we simply cannot control. When Dustin and I saw two pink lines in...

January 19, 2021

  I never thought I would deal with infertility. My earliest memories are of me playing with my dolls and dreaming of the...

January 18, 2021

  Infertility affects 1 out of 8 couples in the U.S. alone. Roughly 10% of men and women face infertility challenges based on separate factors. Below are...

January 14, 2021

  As a labor and delivery nurse, the better half of my twenties were spent bringing babies into the world. I watched as...

January 11, 2021

  I love sharing the story of the creation of my modern-day family because I want to open up the conversation on the...

January 4, 2021

  My husband and I met in 2011. It’s funny because when I first met him I remember thinking, “He is so cute...

December 21, 2020

  With both COVID-19 vaccines now approved by the FDA to be delivered and administered across the country, there are still many people...

December 19, 2020

  When my husband Brian and I decided it was time to start trying for a baby, we never imagined infertility would be...

December 16, 2020

  So often in the world of infertility, those suffering seek out support, love, and comfort from family and friends, only to find...

December 14, 2020

  So, you just received some news: you’ve been diagnosed with Diminished Ovarian Reserve (DOR). The combination of these three words can be...

December 10, 2020

  To Lena, Your Harper’s article caused quite the stir within the vast infertility community. There were varying perspectives and responses, and we’d like...

December 10, 2020

  I am an infertility warrior, but not in the traditional sense. I would say I won the battle, but not in the...

December 8, 2020

  It’s no secret that many couples struggle to conceive. While this used to be a topic barely anyone discussed, thanks to the...

December 3, 2020

  When my husband and I first started our IVF journey, peoples’ response was often, “That’s so exciting; you’re going to have twins!”...

December 1, 2020

  One of the first things I will ask a patient in our first session is “What percent of your time would you...

November 30, 2020

  At Circle Surrogacy & Egg Donation, we work with incredible women every day who are ready to become mothers and have chosen surrogacy as...

November 23, 2020

  Earlier this week, Harper’s Magazine published an essay written by actress, writer, and producer Lena Dunham, best known for her role in...

November 18, 2020

  My husband and I were diagnosed with unexplained infertility when we were both 27. We went through five IUIs and three rounds...

November 17, 2020

  Our fertility journey began in 2015, not long after we were married. Soon after that, in April of 2016, our lives were...

November 16, 2020

  Secondary infertility is a condition that occurs when an individual is unable to become pregnant or carry a child after previously giving...

November 12, 2020

  This is the part I never share, but here goes. I believed I caused my infertility. My brain needed a story for...

November 10, 2020

  So you have already faced months of infertility, maybe even years. You feel exhausted, and the thought of financing another dollar to...

November 4, 2020

  I was 26 the first time I noticed it. I was watching a movie and relaxing when I happened to run my...

November 2, 2020

  Earlier this month, model and cookbook author Chrissy Teigen shared the heartbreaking news that due to a pregnancy complication called placental abruption,...

October 29, 2020

  You probably know that male fertility issues, also known as “male-factor” infertility, contribute to at least 30% of diagnosed infertility cases. But...

October 27, 2020

  While our struggles with infertility only go back two years, it feels like they are ingrained in our four-year marriage as solidly...

October 26, 2020

  When my mother brought me to the United States, her goal was to make sure I was treated fairly regardless of my...

October 22, 2020

  We all go through life with expectations. We expect that if we work hard, educate ourselves, and make the right decisions, that...

October 20, 2020

When my husband and I decided in 2018 that it was time to grow our family, I was worried it was going to...

October 15, 2020

  Hedi Rappard is an IVF warrior and the founder of JUNE, a female-founded e-commerce company striving to improve the health of menstruators...

October 13, 2020

  Being a mother has been my number one goal in life since I was about 3 years old. Growing up, I never...

October 12, 2020

  I have always considered myself an advocate for my reproductive health. I’ve tracked my cycles on a mobile app since I was...

October 7, 2020

  I thought the journey to having a baby would be easy, but I was wrong. I knew being a parent would be...

October 7, 2020

  When we started trying for a baby, I had no idea what infertility really was. I was coming from the mindset of,...

October 4, 2020

  I’ve never considered myself a runner. I’m that chick who listens in awe when others describe a running high (I still think...

September 30, 2020

  It is no surprise that I have a Type A personality. I grew up with some pretty awesome role models (thanks, Mom...

September 28, 2020

  When Eran Amir started building his family, he decided he wanted to pursue surrogacy. But when he started the process of finding...

September 25, 2020

  It’s funny how a picture can take you right back to a particular moment, reminding you of the exact emotions you were...

September 23, 2020

  My husband and I started trying to conceive 19 months ago. We were hopeful, excited, and thankful for our health. After 6...

September 16, 2020

  After a year of trying to conceive with no success, an infertility diagnosis of male factor plus low AMH, the promise that...

September 14, 2020

  I remember growing up thinking I would be a young mom, married with a white picket fence, three children, two dogs, and...

September 9, 2020

  What if I told you that it was possible to be present, be positive, and be calm even during some of the...

September 8, 2020

  I began dating my husband in middle school. He has been my one and only boyfriend since we were 12 years old....

September 2, 2020

  Dear Kristyn,  When you’re 16 years old, your gynecologist will prescribe you a birth control pill due to irregular periods. You won’t...

September 1, 2020

  Did you know that what you put in your body when trying to conceive is the single most important thing you can...

August 31, 2020

  When I was diagnosed with Secondary Infertility, I was overwhelmed. Between being educated on how my reproductive system actually works (or how...

August 24, 2020

  When we first started trying to conceive, I went from 0 to batty real quick. I will admit, I am incredibly type-A,...

August 19, 2020

  I met my husband in the 6th grade. We had been best friends for years and got married in 2018. Coming from...

August 12, 2020

  No one wants to talk about death. No one wants to think about death. Especially when you are starting to create life....

August 10, 2020

  People assume that once a fertility struggle is ‘over’, all is perfect. But, do infertility scars ever fully heal? "But I just...

August 7, 2020

  I was diagnosed with PCOS when I was 16. At the time, I had no idea what that would mean for my...

August 5, 2020

  Many of us know all too well that infertility can be a long, difficult road with lots of ups and downs. The...

August 2, 2020

  Like many of you, my journey to motherhood was not at all what I expected it to be. Navigating the world of...

August 1, 2020

  If you’ve been trying to get pregnant, and haven’t been able to yet, going in to see a specialist for your first...

July 27, 2020

  I can vividly remember the exact day and moment when that beast, infertility, started chipping away at my self-love. I was sitting...

July 22, 2020

  Bilateral Tubal Blockage with Hydrosalpinx: the words that would bring my journey to motherhood to a screeching halt. After a year of...

July 20, 2020

  Our story began in 2016. We stepped off the plane from our honeymoon, and we were informed of bad news about my...

July 13, 2020

  The idea that the modern woman can have it all — a career and a family, a fulfilling professional and personal life...

July 10, 2020

  “The biggest problem in life is the image in our heads of how it should be.” -Unknown If you’re reading this, chances...

July 8, 2020

  I always told my husband it would take a while for us to get pregnant, but I never thought recurrent pregnancy loss...

July 1, 2020

Figuring out how to pay for costly fertility treatments like IUI and IVF can be incredibly stressful. In fact, for the vast majority...

June 29, 2020

  Unique fertility journeys more often than not begin when an individual or couple decides to start a family. But what about when...

June 26, 2020

  Are you starting the planning process to begin the family of your dreams? Choosing home insemination for your path to parenthood can...

June 24, 2020

  We had two of the biggest grins on our faces, walking through the two glass doors of our fertility clinic on a...

June 22, 2020

  The holiday season is a time of joy, laughter, and the gathering of family and friends. It's a time to be thankful...

June 15, 2020

  What happens when you're eager to conceive, a black woman, and you're diagnosed with infertility? Not only are you facing a journey...

June 9, 2020

  Going through infertility is something I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. You watch your partner being poked, prodded, pumped with hormones,...

June 5, 2020

  I have always been a POAS addict (pee-on-a-stick addict). From the moment we decided we were trying, I bought pregnancy tests and...

June 3, 2020

  Have you ever wanted something, dreamed and hoped for years that it would happen, and then one day found out that it...

May 25, 2020

  My husband and I knew we were ready for children a good year before we started actively trying to get pregnant. We...

May 20, 2020

  After almost three years of trying to conceive and over 30 two-week waits under my belt, I am an expert on how...

May 18, 2020

  Even though I'm not on the other side of infertility, I still like to regularly check in with myself about what I've...

May 13, 2020

  Seven years ago, life dealt me the biggest blow when my mother passed away. After rising up out of that despair, I...

May 11, 2020

  ‘Did you know that when we’re born, we’re born with all our eggs? Already. Every last one is there from the very...

May 8, 2020

  Like the majority of people in the infertility community, my journey to parenthood didn't exactly go how I had imagined it would. That's...

April 29, 2020

  No one told me infertility would impact my career. Or how much fertility treatment would feel like another full-time job. Or how it...

April 23, 2020

  “Control what you can control.”  “You can’t control the wind, but you can control your sails.” These mantras are burned in my...

April 22, 2020

  Being a mom is hard. But becoming one, that was even harder. Cankles, hemorrhoids, fear-factor-type cravings at weird hours of the night,...

April 20, 2020

  1 in 8 couples either have trouble getting pregnant or sustaining a pregnancy. That means that out of a group of you...

April 19, 2020

  There is so much I wish I knew before entering the world of infertility. How nice it would have been to have...

April 13, 2020

  I am a planner. I always have been. I have backup plans for my backup plans. No one would ever describe me...

April 8, 2020

  At the start of 2020, anything and everything seemed possible. Maybe not a worldwide pandemic...but we’ll get to that later. At the...

April 6, 2020

  I never thought I would be writing out my infertility story or that I would even be in this place. Our journey...

April 1, 2020

  When my husband and I started IVF, we thought for sure that we would be successful right away. We were both 32...

March 30, 2020

  You would be hard-pressed to find anyone whose “normal” life hasn’t been affected by the Coronavirus outbreak. People are losing their jobs....

March 27, 2020

  “As someone rejoices over a new chapter in their life, I mourn over a loss in mine. It's twisted and confuses my...

March 25, 2020

  I stood in the middle of our kitchen, hands clenched at my side, tears running down my face. “I just can’t do...

March 23, 2020

  I watched my best friend struggle with infertility for years before experiencing it myself. I thought I knew what she was going...

March 16, 2020

  I’ve been sitting here trying to think of a different word for infertile. I even googled its synonyms: barren, unfruitful, impotent, sterile,...

March 11, 2020

  A little over two years ago, the only “lady” tests I was familiar with were the annual pap smear & HPV panel...

March 9, 2020

  In a very personal interview with the popular podcast Infertile AF, Samantha Busch, wife of NASCAR star Kyle Busch, Infertility Advocate, and...

March 4, 2020

  If you’re TTC, you know how psychologically challenging it can be. Emerging research is teaching us about the negative impact stress can...

February 26, 2020

  I always dreamed of being a mom. I imagined being done having babies by the time I was 25. I got married...

February 24, 2020

  I have two beautiful, healthy babies after infertility. They are boy/girl twins, and when I tell people that, they usually say, “you...

February 21, 2020

  When people ask me about my IVF experience, I always give the same answers: it wasn’t easy, but it was successful. What...

February 19, 2020

  Infertility doesn't happen to me - it happens to other people. I conceived my first child naturally within five months. Infertility isn't...

February 17, 2020

  I don’t remember the first time I held my babies. I don’t know who I held first. I don’t know if I...

February 12, 2020

  “What if it takes five years?” It’s ironic now because the five years in question were so arbitrary and also seemed impossible...

February 10, 2020

  My life was completely halted. I was stuck and grieving the loss of my own fertility on a daily basis. I knew...

February 5, 2020

  My husband and I felt excited to “pull out the goalie,” as he affectionately called taking out my IUD. None of our...

February 3, 2020

    Let’s face it. Timed sex is annoying and often anything but sexy. It can also quickly turn depressing when a two-week wait...

January 29, 2020

  September 2016—day one of our honeymoon. My wife and I decide to drive the Maui coast, along the Road to Hana.  A...

January 27, 2020

  Infertility and loss have single-handedly been the most isolating and lonely experiences of my life. The truth of the matter is, that...

January 22, 2020

  Unexpected memories can take you back to the happiest and saddest times in your life. Not too long ago, I was scrolling...

January 20, 2020

  “Hello from the other side. I must have tried a thousand times…. …to try and have a baby.” Okay, tell me you...

January 15, 2020

  As a little girl, I loved playing with dolls. In fact, I kept several of my childhood dolls dreaming I would have...

January 13, 2020

  What you think your life will look like and what it actually is like are not necessarily the same, and how you...

January 8, 2020

  Like depression, infertility was a label I had been convinced of identifying myself with. With both labels depression and infertility, I felt...

January 6, 2020

  We all know good nutrition is important to our overall health, but many women are unaware of the connection between diet, lifestyle,...

January 1, 2020

  Anyone who knows me knows that secrets are not my thing. In fact, I’m hard-pressed to think of anything in my life...

December 26, 2019

Over the past few years, I have had the very best moments of my life and the very worst, all of which are...

December 23, 2019

  Telling people what not to say can be a little bit problematic. I know this because I run a campaign called ‘Think!...

December 18, 2019

  It’s impossible to know what lies ahead on your journey to motherhood and, for me, I was blindsided. It was Spring of...

December 16, 2019

  In December of 2018, my husband and I were told we needed IVF to get pregnant. If you're reading this, you might...

December 11, 2019

  I have always been an anxious person. When you throw in a dash of infertility and a sprinkle of recurrent miscarriages, they...

December 9, 2019

  My daughter’s name would have been Mina. I see glimpses of her in my seven nieces and nephews—tiny flashes from the day...

December 4, 2019

What do severe period pain, infertility, chronic pelvic pain, painful sex, nerve pain, and GI symptoms all have in common? They are all...

November 20, 2019

I never thought I would be someone who had to go through IVF. Real talk, and I’m not proud of this: for years,...

November 18, 2019

  When I first started fertility treatments, IVF was the furthest thing from my mind. I was only 28 years old, and my...

November 13, 2019

  The National Center for Health Statistics reported that the average age of first birth in the United States rose from 24.9 years...

November 11, 2019

  Acupuncture can help women through every stage of their lives, from PMS to menopause. Acupuncture not only helps with fertility, but it can...

November 8, 2019

  The path to parenthood is different for everyone. Donor egg IVF is specifically for those who are unable to use their own...

November 6, 2019

  I don’t think there is anything in this world that can prepare you for infertility. Infertility is the opposite of what our...

November 4, 2019

  When people find out that I have carried five children as a three-time surrogate (yes you counted right, two sets of twins...

October 31, 2019

  Before I dive into my own experiences with stage 4 endometriosis, I think it’s important to start off by saying that everyone’s...

October 28, 2019

  As someone who has spent the better half of the last decade advocating for others as a survivor of domestic violence who...

October 24, 2019

  I’ve always been bossy, or as I like to call it, helpful. From as early on as I can remember, I have...

October 21, 2019

  Travel back with me if you will, all the way to the beginning of you. Well, almost. Picture this: little five-year-old you,...

October 9, 2019

  It seems like everybody knows somebody with an IVF baby, so when my husband Seth and I learned in June 2018 that...

October 7, 2019

  I never thought that I’d be forced into menopause twice before the age of 34.  I always thought that by the time...

October 4, 2019

  For my husband and me, our journey to parenthood has been nothing like what I imagined it would be. I always thought...

October 2, 2019

  I suffered from Hypothalamic Amenorrhea for 10 years without even knowing it. Like many women my age, I was on the birth...

September 30, 2019

  Recently, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Claire Virga, Registered Dietitian at Rooted Wellness in NYC, for a Q&A about...

September 25, 2019

  Love, marriage, a house, kids. That was the dream (mine, anyway). I was lucky enough to find true love and get married...

September 23, 2019

  Polycystic ovary syndrome, or more commonly, PCOS, is an incredibly common disorder that affects about 10% of women in the world, which...

September 17, 2019

  For most of my adult life, I have struggled on-and-off with anxiety. In my 20s, I learned how to deal with it...

September 11, 2019

  I always knew I wanted my own biological children, but I had no idea it would happen through gestational surrogacy, not in...

September 9, 2019

  How can acupuncture have a positive impact on my fertility? At WTHN, our mission is to empower our clients to achieve their best...

August 28, 2019

  My husband wasn’t home when I took my first pregnancy test, but we were able to FaceTime. We both held our breath...

August 26, 2019

  Mom guilt. Every mom has it. And yet, sometimes I feel like mine is amplified a bit since I fought so hard...

August 23, 2019

  I’m a rainbow mama.  This is a title I never asked to have, no one does, but it’s one that I have...

August 21, 2019

  "I'm so sorry, but you're not pregnant." The same words I have heard many times before. The same feeling of the air...

August 14, 2019

  I remember the first time I felt jealous after hearing a friend was pregnant. I remember it because it was such a...

August 12, 2019

  I always say that the scars of infertility don’t fade the minute you find out you’re pregnant. Even though my first reaction...

August 7, 2019

  It’s been almost a whole year that my sweet twin boys have been in our lives, and in some ways it feels...

August 7, 2019

  At the ripe old age of 28, I decided that becoming a mom was going to be my next big thing, which...

July 31, 2019

  “Here comes Baby A!” And then I heard the vibrant cries, our son Logan, being born into the world, his sister Kirsten,...

July 24, 2019

  There was a time when my gut reaction to a pregnancy announcement wasn’t to hurl myself into a sobbing heap on the...

July 3, 2019

  Negative. My pregnancy test was negative. My first IVF cycle didn’t work. I have a beautiful three-year-old daughter. We got pregnant naturally...

July 1, 2019

  It was 2012. Girl meets girl through an online dating website. The first time we met was at a park by my...

June 25, 2019

  I am, by nature, a planner. I am extremely type-A, organized, a scheduler, and I leave little room for error in both...

June 19, 2019

  One year ago this week, I was in the two-week wait after my second frozen embryo transfer. My first one had failed,...

February 6, 2019

  I should preface this by saying, patience is not one of my virtues. I have become increasingly more patient after going through...

January 2, 2019

  After undergoing a year of infertility treatments, including IVF, I thought a positive pregnancy test was going to be the answer to...

November 20, 2018

  Pregnancy after infertility can be scary. It is incredibly joyful, of course, but knowing that you now have what you worked so...

October 15, 2018

  As a self-proclaimed workout fanatic, one of the biggest struggles for me during my TTC journey was whether or not to continue...

August 22, 2018

  You would think, after a year of infertility treatments, that finding out I was pregnant was the happiest day of my life....

August 15, 2018

  I have been feeling all of the feels lately, so I thought it would be a good idea to get my thoughts...

August 11, 2018

I’m writing this in real-time as I sit in my hospital bed after being admitted for signs of pre-term labor. In an insane...

August 9, 2018

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