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Menopause: Puberty’s Older, Moodier Sister

October 16, 2025
Menopause: Puberty’s Older, Moodier Sister

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what’s ahead: menopause feels like this mysterious next chapter everyone whispers about but no one fully explains. I’m not there yet, but as someone who writes about women’s health for a living, I can’t help noticing friends saying things like, “Why am I suddenly waking up drenched in sweat?” or “When did my metabolism just vanish?” It’s like puberty’s older, moodier sister has officially entered the group chat.

Turns out, they’re not imagining it. New research from ZOE (the largest study on menopause and nutrition to date!), paints menopause as a full-body plot twist. Post-menopausal women tend to have higher blood sugar, blood pressure, and body fat, along with worse sleep and stronger sugar cravings. In other words, it’s not just you — your metabolism really does change.

Here’s the practical part: while declining estrogen impacts how our bodies process glucose and store fat, there are ways to work with it. Women who focus on gut health (think fiber, whole grains, veggies, and fermented foods) saw better blood sugar and inflammation markers. Those using hormone replacement therapy (HRT) also fared better, with healthier blood fats and less belly fat. Small shifts, both on your plate and in your self-care, really do add up.

So if your jeans feel snug, your sweet tooth is raging, and your sleep is off, take a breath. You’re not “failing at wellness.” Your biology is evolving, and you can evolve with it.

Ask Clara: How can you support your metabolism as you head toward menopause?


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