Proof That “Good Enough” Can Still Be Good
If I posted a photo of my new “home gym” on Instagram, I could absolutely fool you. I’d angle the shot just right so the lighting hits my dumbbells at a flattering angle, crop out the chaos, maybe even toss on a filter for good measure. You’d probably think, Wow, she’s really got it together.
But if you zoomed out even an inch, you’d see the truth: the other half of my garage is a jumble of bikes, scooters, soccer balls, and whatever random kid treasures have migrated there. There are holes in the walls, dust on the floor, and a general vibe of “this was never meant to be a gym,” because… it wasn’t. It’s a garage.
That’s what you might see.
What I see is very different. I see a small corner of my life that doesn’t belong to anyone else — no toys, no laundry piles, no one asking me where their water bottle went. It’s not fancy, but it’s quiet. It’s mine. And for thirty to forty minutes a day, that’s enough.
I’ve always been someone who prioritizes movement, but working from home changed the game. Suddenly, I was living, parenting, and working all in the same few rooms. I didn’t need perfect conditions to work out; I just needed a place that wasn’t tied to everyone else’s needs. A place where my brain could switch gears the second I stepped inside.
So no, it’s not influencer-worthy. But it’s real, and it works, and it gives me a tiny pocket of breathing room in a very full house. And maybe that’s the real win: not the gym itself, but finally letting “good enough” be the bar.
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